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Thursday, November 13, 2025
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Wednesday, October 22, 2025
music & family
music & family
As mentioned in previous entries, I have grown up around music and been influenced by music pretty much since I was born. I mean my dad literally used to play guitar at me before I could walk or think (as pictured below). So, I figured what better person to interview about music than the person I learned everything I know musically from! I will have this blog entry divided into four sections (not including this one). The first paragraph is just a little background on my dad, the second gets into the first section of questions, starting off with questions about music in his childhood & teen years, the next set of questions just general music questions, and the last set being just fun questions I was curious to know his answer to.
MEET MY DAD: My father is named Phillip Cooper. He is 50 years old, born July 11th of 1974. He grew up in multiple states in the southern region of the US, including where we are now in South Carolina. He currently works at Advantage Hearing, programing hearing aids for people who struggles with hearing difficulties. Which is perfect, because he can barely hear himself, as he's been around loud music performances his whole life (some being his own).
QUESTION SECTION ONE - MUSIC GROWING UP: I started off by asking my dad what the first musical experience was that he vividly remembered and what was so memorable about it. He replied with, "In 1983, I was at a church in Ft. Payne, Alabama, speaking to an adult who played drums, asking him how he learned and how I could learn. He simply handed me the sticks and said 'hit 'em'. Most memorable thing about it was he didn't seem to mind." The next question I asked my dad was, "what was music's role in your household?". He had this to say: "Music has an enormous role. Everyone either played an instrument, sang, or both. Mom and Dad started it all as far back as the early 60s." The third thing I asked my dad was, "Who was it that introduced you to the music you like?", and he said that, "Our next-door neighbor in 1986 started letting me play his records". The following question was, "How has your cultural background or personal experiences influenced your music taste?", and he told me that, "I grew up in areas where acoustic music was more the focus". The fifth and final question I asked him in this section was, "What were your favorite bands growing up?" and he said that his favorites were "Petra and Degarmo & Key".
QUESTION SECTION TWO - GENERAL MUSIC IN LIFE: Starting off in this section, I asked him a question I already knew the answer to. I asked, "Who was your biggest musical influencer? Why?", and my dad said, Keith Green- his music was a reflection of his life and feelings towards God and humanity". I remember hearing Keith Green's music as my dad played it for me and reflected on his inspirations, and I can definitely see similarities between the way my dad produces music and the way Keith Green produced music. My second question was, "What songs did you play at an important time in your life?", which I guess could be interpreted like, play yourself or play on a device used for listening. He interpreted play yourself, and replied with, "I learned to play story songs at the age of 12 and they shaped the way I approach song writing and how I use dynamics on vocals". Next, I wanted to know "How has your music taste changed over the course of your life?". He said, "Honestly, my tastes haven't changed at all since the age of 13. I am more tolerable to different styles." I can relate to that, 13-year-old me was onto something with (some of) the music she listened to. I then asked him, "Did you and mom have a special song?", and he told me that it is and still was "'You're Not Alone' by Twisted Sister". Lastly in this section, I asked him, "How many instruments can you play?", to which he told me, "Two- guitar and drums. I began mandolin, but my fingertips are too large". He is not exaggerating you should SEE the size of this guy's hands.
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this one is the song he said was his and my mom's special song...
QUESTION SECTION THREE - MISCELLANEOUS: I wanted to end my father's interrogation with some questions that are more fun for the both of us. I started off by asking, "How is today's music different than the music you listened to growing up? What's your opinion on it?". He gives his opinion on the music I play in his car quite a lot, but he answered with, "It's less dynamic and lyrics seem less important. We've stepped backwards as far as quality of song but forwards in terms of visual production". I agree and disagree with him. My music taste is generally 90's rock, but I do like the lyrics of SOME modern-day music. The following question I asked of him was, "What's the weirdest music you've heard?", and he introduced me to something called, "Mongolian Throat Music". Similarly, I wanted to know what his LEAST favorite genre of music was, and he informed me that it was, "POLKA". He was very passionate on his answer but did not elaborate further ha-ha! Next question I was excited to hear his answer to, so I asked him, "What song reminds you of me?", and he told me either "Smells Like Teen Spirit or Pound of Flesh". At first, I had no clue what he meant by the second song, but then I realized that he meant "Celebrity Skin" by Hole. He thought it was called Pound of Flesh because those are the only three words he remembers from the entire song. Then I wanted to hear what he had to say about MY music taste, and he said, "It's vastly different to what I grew up listening to." I think he would've been more judgmental on it if there wasn't a possibility of other students reading this, don't let his sugarcoating fool you!
song links
these were the songs he said reminded him of me...
Thank you for reading my entry, and I hope you enjoyed learning about my dad's history with music as much as I did!!
Tuesday, September 30, 2025
music & traditions
Music & Traditions
Music has always been a very important aspect of my life. If you read my last blog entry, you know why, so I will refrain from going on yet another tangent about it. My music taste changes as much as I change my clothes, so I do not really have many set songs for set traditions. However, there are a few worth mentioning.
Let me preface this next paragraph by saying I have never seen a single Twilight movie, and nor have I read any of the books. Sorry to whomever that may devastate, I will get to them eventually (maybe...). On August 31st of this year, my brother got married to his girlfriend of 8 years, Brenna. Both Chandler (my brother) and Brenna are extremely special people in my life. Chandler has always been the best big brother, and Brenna stepped up to be the best big sister that my blood sister failed to be. I wasn't in the actual wedding, but I got to be in charge of the music. I felt special because what is a wedding without music. The song everyone walked out to was a song from Twilight, called Turning Page. I have no idea what happens when Turning Page plays in the actual movies (I assume a wedding?), but now every single time I hear it while scrolling on TikTok or whatever else, I start to tear up. It was genuinely the most beautiful, but small, and special wedding I have ever been to. I have linked the song below, as well as a few pictures from the wedding simply because I love Chandler and Brenna so much and want to show them off haha.
On a sillier and less sappy note, there is one song I like to annoy my family, specifically my mother, with every single Christmas. Well not exactly on Christmas, more so when I help her decorate the tree. As some backstory, in fifth grade I discovered rock music. I thought it was the coolest thing ever. So much so, that when I would be moody and sassy (as bratty 10-year-olds do), my mom would literally ground me from listening to a particular band I used to love, My Chemical Romance. She thought all this "angry music" was what was causing me to be a brat and looking back at it I don't think that was the reason, I think that was just who I was at the time LOL. That is also such a silly thing to be grounded from, I really wonder if that is an original experience for me. But anyways, My Chemical Romance has a cover of the beloved Christmas tune, "All I Want for Christmas is You". At one point during the Christmas season of fifth grade, I remember purposefully playing it while decorating the tree and acting clueless as to what band it was. She in fact did NOT enjoy my song choice. She kept going on and on about how awful it was, and I found her annoyance amusing. Now I play it every single year while decorating. Honestly, I think she is warming up to it. I don't know why she wouldn't, she listened to way "angrier" sounding stuff when she was a teenager, such as Pantera and Skid Row. I linked the cover down below. Though this is slightly embarrassing for me to listen to now (depending on who I am around), little 10-year-old me thought I had discovered the most amazing thing ever. I also included a picture of my mama and I last Christmas, just because.
Thank you for reading my blog! I cannot wait to hear of any feedback you may have, and to read your musical traditions as well.
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Thursday, September 4, 2025
music & me
Intro: Hey guys! I am Abby Cooper, and I am a freshman at Converse who wishes to major in psychology and eventually pursue a career as a therapist. I am from a smaller town in South Carolina about 40 minutes away from here called Pelzer. I recently graduated high school at Palmetto High located in Williamston, South Carolina.
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music & us: our playlist intro: I have thoroughly enjoyed exploring different cultures and their music throughout the course of this c...
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music & us: our playlist intro: I have thoroughly enjoyed exploring different cultures and their music throughout the course of this c...
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Intro: Hey guys! I am Abby Cooper, and I am a freshman at Converse who wishes to major in psychology and eventually pursue a career as a t...
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music & family As mentioned in previous entries, I have grown up around music and been influenced by music pretty much since I was bor...




